My sex life, 4 weeks post-op from a (nearly) radical hysterectomy

(This was originally written March 1, 2022. I was still struggling to choose a domain name! Still, here is where I was after 4 weeks. I will follow up with my 7-week update in a day or so.)

When someone is diagnosed with gynecological cancer, the standard of care is usually a radical hysterectomy. The definition of ‘radical hysterectomy’ seems to vary a little online. Either it means the removal of the uterus, cervix, and ‘surrounding tissues’ (whatever that specifically means), or it means the removal of those things, plus the fallopian tubes (salpingectomy), ovaries (oophorectomy), and sentinel lymph nodes (lymphadenectomy), plus they also cut off the very top bit (not a lot) of the vaginal canal. Whether a gynecological oncologist defines it one way or another (or doesn’t specify a term at all – mine did not), it’s standard for them to plan to take everything listed in the latter definition. According to the former, I definitely had a radical hysterectomy, but according to the latter, I did not, because I chose to keep my ovaries.

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This blog is for anyone who has experienced any kind of medical procedure or treament that has affected their sexual/reproductive organs and/or erogenous zones and is concerned about, or experiencing, challenges or changes regarding sexual health after that particular procedure/treatment. I am one of those people – I had a hysterectomy in February 2022. I’m a cisgender woman, personally, and because of who I am, my experiences and writing will be colored by that. However, this is for people of all genders. It’s about the trauma of medical intervention into intricate systems, and how it affects the sexual and sensual parts of ourselves (including the mind!) and how the way we experience sexual pleasure could change. I’ve read that for some, nothing changes, or it even gets better (because of lessened pain or dysphoria), but I’ve also seen a lot of evidence of lingering problems, even for years. 

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